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Hanne Kj\u00f6ller uppm\u00e4rksammade i en ledarartikel i DN<\/a> nyligen hur en f\u00f6r\u00e4lder, till synes med domstolens acceptans, kan flytta ett barn inom Sverige utan den andre f\u00f6r\u00e4lderns godk\u00e4nnande, eller sabotera umg\u00e4nget mellan barnet och den andra f\u00f6r\u00e4ldern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allt oftare st\u00f6ter jag p\u00e5 v\u00e5rdnads-, boende- och umg\u00e4ngeskonflikter d\u00e4r jag, socialsekreterarna (i b\u00e4sta fall) och domstolen f\u00e5r intrycket att det framf\u00f6r allt handlar om att barnet anv\u00e4nds i en konflikt mellan f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna som egentligen handlar om svek, besvikelse och brustna dr\u00f6mmar i de vuxnas relation. Min uppfattning \u00e4r att detta i de flesta fall \u00e4r ganska uppenbart f\u00f6r inblandade r\u00e4ttsinstanser. Domstolarna \u00e4r medvetna om att det f\u00f6rekommer anklagelser och brottsbeskyllningar och som regel kr\u00e4ver man att det ska finnas n\u00e5gon annan omst\u00e4ndighet, helst en f\u00e4llande dom, som bekr\u00e4ftar eller konkretiserar s\u00e5dana p\u00e5st\u00e5enden.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hur resonerar en f\u00f6r\u00e4lder som tar sig r\u00e4tten att f\u00f6rbeh\u00e5lla barnet r\u00e4tten till den andra f\u00f6r\u00e4ldern? Jag vet att det finns fall d\u00e4r f\u00f6r\u00e4ldern skyddar sitt barn fr\u00e5n faktiska \u00f6vergrepp. Men det \u00e4r inte dessa fall jag talar om. Det \u00e4r de l\u00e5ngt vanligare fallen d\u00e4r en f\u00f6r\u00e4lder k\u00e4nner sig sviken, l\u00e4mnad, svartsjuk. D\u00e4r barnet anv\u00e4nds f\u00f6r att ge igen, h\u00e4mnas, bestraffa. Barn \u00e4r ingen r\u00e4ttighet eller ett f\u00f6rem\u00e5l som man anv\u00e4nder som maktmedel. Och h\u00e4r tror jag att domstolarnas resonemang ligger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det \u00e4r inte ett problem att r\u00e4ttssystemet v\u00e4grar att bestraffa en f\u00f6r\u00e4lder som agerar utifr\u00e5n eget bev\u00e5g. Ist\u00e4llet tror jag att domstolarna i de flesta fallen faktiskt \u00e4r medvetna om att det n\u00e5gonstans i sammanhanget handlar om en liten m\u00e4nniska, en egen individ med r\u00e4ttigheter och k\u00e4nslor och en vardag.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Problemet \u00e4r i st\u00e4llet att det tar f\u00f6r l\u00e5ng tid innan domstolarna fattar ett slutligt beslut. Efter lag\u00e4ndringen 2006 har domstolarna blivit restriktivare med att meddela interimistiska beslut, d v s beslut som g\u00e4ller tills den slutliga domen meddelas. Man \u00e4ndrar helst inte en gemensam v\u00e5rdnad genom ett interimistiskt beslut. Lagstiftaren menar att det finns en risk att det interimistiska beslutet f\u00e5r en styrande verkan p\u00e5 det slutgiltiga avg\u00f6randet. Och innan domstolen \u00e4r redo att meddela ett slutligt avg\u00f6rande, ser man helst att f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna g\u00e5tt med p\u00e5 medling och \/eller samarbetssamtal. Fungerar inte det ska en utredning fr\u00e5n familjer\u00e4tten inh\u00e4mtas. Dessa tar i b\u00e4sta fall 4 m\u00e5nader, i realiteten oftast 6 m\u00e5nader. N\u00e4r domstolen \u00e4r redo att meddela sin dom, har det ofta g\u00e5tt mer \u00e4n ett \u00e5r och d\u00e5 \u00e4r det som regel inte l\u00e4ngre f\u00f6rsvarligt att riva upp barnet igen fr\u00e5n sin nya hemort, skola, kamrater, fritidsaktiviteter.  I v\u00e5rdnadsm\u00e5l f\u00e5r sedan vardera f\u00f6r\u00e4lder st\u00e5 sina egna r\u00e4tteg\u00e5ngskostnader, oavsett utg\u00e5ngen i m\u00e5let.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hanne Kj\u00f6ller drar parallellen med internationella barnbortf\u00f6randen d\u00e4r Haagkonventionen, r\u00e4tt till\u00e4mpad av medlemsstaterna, \u00e4r en garant f\u00f6r ett effektivt \u00e5terf\u00f6rande av barnet till dess hemvistland. Inom sex veckor fr\u00e5n ans\u00f6kan till domstol, ska domstol pr\u00f6va \u00e4rendet och meddela sitt avg\u00f6rande. Detta fungerar alldeles utm\u00e4rkt hos Stockholms tingsr\u00e4tt som \u00e4r domstolen som pr\u00f6var alla \u00e4renden d\u00e4r barn olovligen f\u00f6rts till eller kvarh\u00e5lls i Sverige. Huvudregeln \u00e4r att barnet ska \u00e5terf\u00f6ras och att endast begr\u00e4nsade och t\u00e4mligen tydliga undantag kan g\u00f6ras g\u00e4llande. Slutligen och inte minst viktigt, s\u00e5 f\u00e5r den f\u00f6r\u00e4lder som f\u00f6rlorar tvisten betala den vinnande f\u00f6r\u00e4lderns r\u00e4tteg\u00e5ngskostnader.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kanske skulle vi st\u00e4lla samma krav n\u00e4r det g\u00e4ller nationella barn\u00e4renden. S\u00e5 att huvudregeln \u00e4r att ett interimistiskt beslut ska meddelas inom 6 veckor, att v\u00e5rdnadsr\u00e4tten interimistiskt fr\u00e5ntas den f\u00f6r\u00e4ldern som undanh\u00e5ller barnet r\u00e4tten till den andra f\u00f6r\u00e4ldern, att barnet ska tillbaka till sin hemvistort och att f\u00f6r\u00e4ldern som f\u00f6rlorar tvisten \u00e4r skyldig att ers\u00e4tta den andra f\u00f6r\u00e4ldern dess r\u00e4tteg\u00e5ngskostnader.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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