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Vad \u00e4r d\u00e5 syftet med att barn kommer och tr\u00e4ffar oss medlare? M\u00e5nga f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar fr\u00e5gar sig vilken nytta det \u00e4r f\u00f6r barnet att samtala om sin situation med oss medlare (som ju ska hj\u00e4lpa f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna<\/em> att f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka hitta en l\u00f6sning p\u00e5 tvisten), eftersom barnet i slut\u00e4ndan \u00e4nd\u00e5 inte f\u00e5r best\u00e4mma hur det ska bli. Andra tycker att barnet redan har involverats s\u00e5 mycket i tvisten, genom t ex samtal hos soc, och vill skona barnet fr\u00e5n att ytterligare dras in i tvisten. Det \u00e4r legitima inv\u00e4ndningar och funderingar fr\u00e5n f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna. Tanken med barnsamtal hos oss \u00e4r dock varken att barnet ska f\u00e5 best\u00e4mma hur tvisten ska l\u00f6sas eller att barnet p\u00e5 ett ol\u00e4mpligt s\u00e4tt ska bli indragen i tvisten mellan f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det fr\u00e4msta sk\u00e4let till att vi samtalar med barn \u00e4r f\u00f6r att barn faktiskt har en lagstadgad r\u00e4tt att f\u00e5 information och en m\u00f6jlighet att framf\u00f6ra sina \u00e5sikter i fr\u00e5gor som r\u00f6r barnet. Det kan t ex handla om hur barnet ska bo eller hur v\u00e5rdnaden om barnet ska se ut. Barn till f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar som vill skona sina barn fr\u00e5n att involveras i tvisten har kanske inte ens f\u00e5tt reda p\u00e5 att det p\u00e5g\u00e5r en domstolstvist eller vad som kommer h\u00e4nda fram\u00f6ver. Om vi har ett barnsamtal (efter samtycke fr\u00e5n b\u00e5da f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna), informerar vi d\u00e4rf\u00f6r alltid om att b\u00e5da f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna vill det b\u00e4sta f\u00f6r barnet, och att f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna nu tr\u00e4ffar oss medlare f\u00f6r att gemensamt f\u00f6rs\u00f6ka hitta den b\u00e4sta l\u00f6sningen f\u00f6r barnet. Men om f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna inte kan komma \u00f6verens, s\u00e5 kommer en domare att best\u00e4mma vad som blir b\u00e4st. \u00c4ven om barnet kanske har best\u00e4mda \u00e5sikter i sj\u00e4lva tvistefr\u00e5gorna, \u00e4r det viktigt att f\u00f6rmedla att barnet inte har n\u00e5got ansvar varken f\u00f6r uppkomsten eller utg\u00e5ngen av tvisten genom att vara tydlig med att det \u00e4r de vuxna som fattar besluten.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Tanken med barnsamtal \u00e4r d\u00e4rmed inte heller att barnet ska ha eller ge konkreta svar p\u00e5 hur tvisten ska l\u00f6sas. Ofta kan barnet dessutom ha mots\u00e4gelsefulla k\u00e4nslor och \u00f6nskningar. I st\u00e4llet syftar barnsamtalet till att ge barnet en m\u00f6jlighet att framf\u00f6ra vad som \u00e4r viktigt<\/em> f\u00f6r barnet, s\u00e5som vad som g\u00f6r barnet glad eller vad det tycker om att g\u00f6ra, om det \u00e4r n\u00e5got barnet tycker \u00e4r jobbigt, funderar p\u00e5, \u00e4r orolig f\u00f6r eller ser fram emot.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u00f6rhoppningen efter barnsamtalet \u00e4r att det som framkommit fr\u00e5n barnet (och som barnet gett OK att vi delar med f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna!) ska st\u00f6dja f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna att reflektera och n\u00e5 fram till en l\u00f6sning som underl\u00e4ttar och f\u00f6rb\u00e4ttrar f\u00f6r barnet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Det viktigaste f\u00f6r oss medlare \u00e4r att barnet inte ska uppleva samtalet som en kravfylld utfr\u00e5gning, utan som ett m\u00f6te d\u00e4r barnet p\u00e5 ett avslappnat s\u00e4tt f\u00e5r m\u00f6jlighet att ber\u00e4tta om s\u00e5dant det t\u00e4nker p\u00e5 och som \u00e4r viktigt f\u00f6r barnet. Det \u00e4r helt frivilligt f\u00f6r barnet att tr\u00e4ffa oss och ibland vill eller har barnet n\u00e4stan ingenting alls att s\u00e4ga, och s\u00e5 f\u00e5r det vara. I andra fall har barnet massor av id\u00e9er och tankar som kan hj\u00e4lpa f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrarna vidare i medlingen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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